Confidence is arrogant? Nope, not at all! With these thoughts, you encounter everyday life with healthy self-worth. It’s best to start today!
Yes, of course, there are these sophisticated women (or men) who consider themselves to be the "Queen of fucking everything" and who can be felt by their fellow human beings. By always emphasizing how good they are and how bad the others are. Nobody wants to mutate into them, of course. But have you ever wondered what you can do to give your self-esteem a little boost? Confident women keep 5 thoughts in mind: If you integrate these principles into your everyday life, you will soon feel an improvement. Hand on it!
1. I know what I can do
If you don't know, how should others know? Everyone (really everyone!) Has talent. If it helps you, write your 3 best features on a piece of paper and stick them on the bathroom mirror or in another place you visit often. Just a reminder: Has nothing to do with arrogance, but with positive conditioning!
2. I am not alone
Confident people can do everything alone? That's not true! They only know where and how they can get help best! And also dare to use them without any false shame.
3. I don't have to please everyone
The highest motto of self-confident people - and not so easy to live by. But whoever frees himself from the "Everybody's Darling" claim quickly becomes more confident. It is important that you remain authentic - and never treat other people disrespectfully.
4. No is a normal word
And that's why you can use it too! Are you holding too much work? Are you expected too much? Are you under pressure? Stop - the answer is NO!
5. I am worth being loved
Self-confidence is not the only driver of success in the job. A good dose of self-esteem is also essential in love life. Regardless of whether you are looking for a partner or in a relationship: This guiding principle can actually only do good. Are you having trouble believing the mantra yourself? Then ask friends, family, or your partner why you are lovable. You will surely get many great answers!